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OK, I’m Psychic, But How Do I Use It?


It never fails, the “question,” after every psychical profiling session I have ever conducted…..”OK, I’m psychic, but how do I use it?” In my Psychical Profiling Sessions I help my clients discover what type of ESP or PK they utilize on a regular basis, and tell them how it manifests in their life. Regardless of the timing, the question always comes up eventually.

The answer…”You’re asking the wrong question.”

Experts today suggest that we are always utilizing our psychical abilities subtly along with our normal mental and physical processes the grand majority of the time, whether we notice we are or not. This is why I focus first and foremost on how the ability manifests (looks like in the clients day-to-day and in stressful moments – how they already use it.)

Secondly, I explain that since we are typically using our psychical ability all of the time, the question we need to ask is not “How do I use it?” but rather “When am I not using it?” While there is some debate out there still on the issue, it seems that a person has to believe in psychical ability to utilize psychical ability. In other words, if one strongly does not believe in such things, then ones mental and physical processes have no need to use it!

 In addition, Extrasensory Perception and Psychokinesis are bimodal, meaning they work two ways. When we are happy, optimistic, relaxed and positive thinking/feeling in general, psychical ability works to direct you towards what you need, i.e. what is most beneficial.

However, if one is depressed, anxious, pessimistic, stressed, and negative thinking/feeling in general, psychical ability works to direct you towards what you do NOT need, i.e. may be harmful. Is this the reason why negative people typically keep finding themselves in negative situations? Perhaps, in part, but there are many other factors to consider.

 Because of the bimodal nature of psychical ability, a negative thinking or stressed individual has two options to gain some level of predictability. On one hand, they can shift their perspective from pessimistic to optimistic, or to relax when stressed, and reset the mode.

However, if one cannot relax, or shift their perspective, they will have to remember that their psychical ability mode is now shifted, and act accordingly. In the case of either mode, it may not be that your psychical ability “just stopped working,” but rather, it just stopped working the way you are use to it working.

Once the specific functions and modes of a psychical ability are understood, my clients start to notice “how” they are already utilizing their psychical ability on a regular basis. Once the ability can be seen, it can begin to be understood. Once it is understood, the client can begin to build and structure solid psychical experiential skills.

Professor Emerita at the University of Alternative Studies. A process-oriented qualitative researcher in the area of psychic experiences. An author of 6 books including university-level textbooks, and various technical papers on psychic experiences. A distinguished expert in Scientific Parapsychology and Clinical Parapsychology.

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