{"id":5565,"date":"2016-04-09T10:32:45","date_gmt":"2016-04-09T14:32:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/qpsychics.com\/center\/membership\/?p=5565"},"modified":"2016-04-09T10:32:45","modified_gmt":"2016-04-09T14:32:45","slug":"i-want-to-be-more-type-red-ii-type-gray","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/qpsychics.com\/center\/membership\/i-want-to-be-more-type-red-ii-type-gray\/","title":{"rendered":"I Want To Be More Type Red II (Type Gray)"},"content":{"rendered":"

I WANT TO ME MORE….<\/span>“RED” II<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"achievement\"<\/a>They also tend to be the most aggressive of all the types<\/u>. They live for gratification and achievement<\/span><\/strong>, are often a bit self-involved, but are fairly mature in their goals and principles. If your close relationships aren\u2019t already deeply emotional, they will be once you start leaning in this direction.<\/p>\n

You will need to avoid feelings of inadequacy, since it\u2019s your new weakness.<\/u> Type Reds often do this by falling in love with themselves and putting themselves up on a pedestal, rather than letting others do it for them. This way, any criticism or rejection that comes their way does not influence their social position in any way. <\/u><\/p>\n

\"whatothersthink\"<\/a>Rather, it just bounces right off of them and they keep on going. If they do allow others to put them up on a pedestal, they are easily knocked right back down if they are hit by criticism from that person. So, be prepared to have iron skin,<\/span> or be prepared to not really care what anyone thinks of you<\/span><\/strong><\/span> at all, except maybe a trusted few.<\/p>\n

Basically, increasing and maintaining your self-esteem will now be a full-time job. <\/span><\/strong>You will need to be competent in your actions<\/u> and highly likable<\/u>. To be highly likable you will have to be fully prepared to shed even some of your most deeply held beliefs to fit in everywhere you go.<\/p>\n

\"nofraud\"<\/a>If not, deception will be your most powerful tool<\/u>, which you should already have mastered as a Type Gray. This is where things can get a bit gray-area<\/strong> as far as ethical and legal implications, so keep that impulsive side in check<\/u>, and think through your more devious plans<\/u>.<\/p>\n

Again, the universe conspires to help, not hurt,<\/span><\/strong> so watch out for cruel intent, it may end up getting you cut off from your Type Gray psychic experiences. Watch out for acting out of shamelessness, jealousy, envy, arrogance, or a sense of entitlement<\/u>. Keep your expectations (in life in general) realistic and watch out for magical thinking, which can be very counterproductive to keeping it real.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

If you find yourself quick to exploit others without caring about the feelings of others just to meet your own needs, you\u2019re in for a world of hurt, so start working on those compassion skills.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"dualprobability\"<\/a>Type Reds can get away with some of this stuff occasionally, you can\u2019t, because you\u2019re a two-person show (you + universe), not a solo act.<\/span><\/u><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Avoid negative thinking, brooding, vengeful feelings, and violent reactions. <\/span><\/strong>You may end up a skilled manipulator by leaning in this direction, but pushing others too hard will backfire.<\/strong> When this backfires, people will start making quick and rash (rushed and unwise) decisions<\/u> around you, while others may complain that they feel frustrated and mentally exhausted<\/u> around you.<\/p>\n

\"stress2\"<\/a>People can only take just so much from a control freak, psychic or not.<\/span><\/strong> If you start noticing these effects in other people, back off, seek solitude, and start working on your anxiety and control issues.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

They are what drive these issues to happen. The more desperate you are to get your way, the worse things will get<\/u>. Also, these effects will be more commonly seen in other people who suffer from anxiety and other mental health issues themselves<\/u>, so if things start taking a downward spiral for them, get as far away from them as you can,<\/strong> and avoid even thinking about them<\/u> if you can.<\/p>\n

In a nutshell:<\/strong><\/h2>\n